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You’re asking again?

Uczenie się a zależność

Olek frequently returns to Jonas for feedback. For Olek it is a way to learn; for Jonas it looks like increasing dependence on his judgement.

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Olek, Jonas in panel 1 of You’re asking again?.
Got a minute? Can you tell me if I’m heading in the right direction?
Sure.
Olek, Jonas in panel 2 of You’re asking again?.LATER
And now?
Olek, Jonas in panel 3 of You’re asking again?.
Olek, don’t you trust your own judgment?
What?
Olek, Jonas in panel 4 of You’re asking again?.
I ask you because I learn faster when I get correction immediately.
And I thought you wanted me to hold your hand.
Olek, Jonas in panel 5 of You’re asking again?.
Collect the questions. We’ll do one review at three.
Works for me.
Em, the Empatyzer coach
Olek asks for frequent feedback to learn faster, while Jonas reads that frequency as a lack of independent judgement. The same question is a learning tool to one person and a sign of dependence to the other. Set a consultation rhythm. Decide which questions to collect, which to ask immediately and which decisions genuinely require input.