# What is a good first question to ask Em?

A good first question for Em, the AI coach in Empatyzer, concerns a real upcoming conversation and has a clear goal, for example: “How can I ask my manager to decide between two conflicting priorities without sounding as if I am avoiding responsibility?”

If you can, select your manager above the chat first, then add what you already know: the two priorities, the deadline and what you have tried. A real uncertainty gives Em enough material for specific help instead of generic communication advice. You can also start in the “About me” context, for example by asking why certain situations at work drain your energy.

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## About this answer

- Page: https://empatyzer.fr/faq-questions-answers/answers/what-is-a-useful-first-question-to-try/
- Topic: [Questions from employees and other participants](https://empatyzer.fr/faq-questions-answers/employee-questions/)
- Polish version: https://empatyzer.fr/pl/pytania-i-odpowiedzi/odpowiedzi/pierwsze-pytanie-do-em/
- Published 2026-09-06; Updated 2026-10-10; Reviewed 2026-10-10
- Publisher: EMPATYZER sp. z o.o., https://empatyzer.fr/

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