# What information should I include in a question to Em?

A good question to Em, the AI coach in Empatyzer, describes the observable situation, your relationship with the person, the conversation’s goal and what you find difficult. Also mention constraints, such as a decision already made or an earlier discussion that went badly.

Separating facts from interpretations makes the preparation more useful: “the update arrived two days late” gives Em something concrete to work with, while “they do not care” is already an interpretation. You can also paste the message you are replying to. Include only the details about other people that genuinely matter for the conversation.

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## About this answer

- Page: https://empatyzer.fr/faq-questions-answers/answers/what-information-should-i-include-in-a-question-to-em/
- Topic: [Using Em in real conversations](https://empatyzer.fr/faq-questions-answers/using-em/)
- Polish version: https://empatyzer.fr/pl/pytania-i-odpowiedzi/odpowiedzi/jakie-informacje-podac-em/
- Published 2026-09-06; Updated 2026-10-10; Reviewed 2026-10-10
- Publisher: EMPATYZER sp. z o.o., https://empatyzer.fr/

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