# How should I adapt an Em suggestion that does not fit the situation?

Treat a suggestion from Em, the AI coach in Empatyzer, as a draft to refine: add the missing context, say what feels wrong and ask for another approach that better fits the relationship and your goal.

Empatyzer is designed for a back-and-forth conversation with Em, so the answer becomes more precise as you clarify the situation. If the advice seems to be about someone else, check that the right person or group is selected above the chat. The final choice of words and the responsibility for the conversation stay with you.

## Also asked as

- Em’s advice doesn’t fit my situation
- Em misunderstood the situation
- ask Em for a different approach
- the suggestion doesn’t sound like me
- refine Em’s answer

## About this answer

- Page: https://empatyzer.fr/faq-questions-answers/answers/how-should-i-adapt-an-em-suggestion-that-does-not-fit-the-situation/
- Topic: [Using Em in real conversations](https://empatyzer.fr/faq-questions-answers/using-em/)
- Polish version: https://empatyzer.fr/pl/pytania-i-odpowiedzi/odpowiedzi/gdy-podpowiedz-em-nie-pasuje/
- Published 2026-09-06; Updated 2026-10-10; Reviewed 2026-10-10
- Publisher: EMPATYZER sp. z o.o., https://empatyzer.fr/

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