# Can I use Em’s wording as a starting point for my own message?

Yes. Em, the AI coach in Empatyzer, can suggest wording, an opening or questions that you then adapt to your own way of speaking.

Treat the suggestion as a starting point rather than a script. You can ask Em to make it more direct, warmer, shorter or closer to how you actually talk, or paste your own draft and ask how it may come across to the other person. What you finally say or send is your decision.

## Also asked as

- rewrite my message with Em
- make my message sound warmer
- Em suggested phrases
- paste my draft into Em

## About this answer

- Page: https://empatyzer.fr/faq-questions-answers/answers/can-i-use-ems-wording-as-a-starting-point-for-my-own-message/
- Topic: [Em, AI personalization and responsible use](https://empatyzer.fr/faq-questions-answers/ai-personalization-and-human-judgment/)
- Polish version: https://empatyzer.fr/pl/pytania-i-odpowiedzi/odpowiedzi/sformulowania-em-jako-punkt-wyjscia/
- Published 2026-09-06; Updated 2026-10-10; Reviewed 2026-10-10
- Publisher: EMPATYZER sp. z o.o., https://empatyzer.fr/

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